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Nikki B. helps Mommas understand why humans become who they become. She also helps growth-minded moms understand the need underneath behavior so they can guide their kids with more clarity, more steadiness, and less guesswork.
12 common behaviors decoded through Safety, Connection, and Autonomy so you can stop guessing and start understanding.
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Children have three core emotional needs. When those needs go unmet, the brain sends a signal. That signal is the behavior you're seeing. This guide decodes 12 of the most common ones so you can stop reacting to the surface and start responding to what's underneath.
Each behavior comes with the need underneath it and a guiding question for your response.
I read this and immediately thought, that explains my child. I had no idea the clinginess was actually about connection. It changed how I showed up that same afternoon.
I've read so many parenting books and nothing clicked the way this did. Simple, clear, and it actually makes sense of what I'm living every day.
Nikki B. helps Mommas understand why humans become who they become. She also helps growth-minded moms understand the need underneath behavior so they can guide their kids with more clarity, more steadiness, and less guesswork.